Temptations

The basic instinct of need comes from what we see around. May be it is the common psychology of human brain. Sometimes we don't get attracted to things or people or don't feel the urge to achieve them until we see someone enjoying them.

Starting when its gonna END

Life had always showed me a way and finally sometimes I have realised that I can't follow and go through. Many a times I have felt that when there is an end life showed me a new light and whenever there is a new way there is a big rock blocking the entry. I am a person interested in many things , have loads of interests and passions. I feel like pursuing them and I have done that a lot but I am not really sure about my timing.

Another major problem with me is I can't continue a thing for long. I am too moody and my interests keep on changing. Its not that they end forever but it goes in a coma. They will come back but when that is unknown. I have started blogging long back but it had been a discontinuous process for me. I have made friends with similar interests and in the long run they have disappeared or rather I have.

I am trying to make a comeback again but this time the timing is wrong again. I would be joining a ship in a few days and may be this practice will again get discontinued and when I return after several months I don't know whether I would blog again or if I do then when I would do that is unknown to me.

I am the kind of river which doesn't know which way it would flow after a few hours. It flows with a definite speed but direction is uncertain. This is me and it will be like this I suppose. Kindly excuse this negative part of my character. Being an author of a little blog I feel its injustice to all my readers but I apologise sincerely from my heart...

Getting tagged in a wrong way

Have u seen the new application added in the orkut...(tagging ur friends photos)..????

If u haven't lemme tell you about this and if u already have had seen that and tagged someone lemme tell you something also..But well the first thing first....

How to tag ::::

Its very simple .Just go to ur photos or your friends photo and select the tag option given there and select a portion of that photo (say a friend's face) and tag that one by naming him and you can only do that if he/she is in orkut. You select the name from ur friend list and tag that person and you can do it for urself too(then u can see the photo in "photos of me" application added in ur profile recently)
Whats the idea:::


The idea of the application is that someone viewing your photos can know the name of the person u tagged by moving his cursor over the photo and by clicking on the tagged part( ur friend's face) he will land on the person's profile. Sometimes we happen to see a group photo and it happens that maybe we like a person in that photo and maybe in our heart we hope in a whisper that if it was possible to know that person or if that person was in orkut!!

ORKUT HAS MADE THAT POSSIBLE......

U like someone in a photo u r viewing and luckily he/she is tagged by someone , u can just reach the person's profile in a click and send a friend request.

Now the main part and the conclusion :::::
Now suppose you are a person who doesn't like to give ur photo in the net , and u happen to get tagged by someone unknowingly , getting viewed by everyone and people even maybe saving ur photos in their pc and using it further in wrong ways...

U CAN'T EVEN HAVE A RELIEF IF YOU ARE IN A GROUP PHOTO AND CAN GET TAGGED AND VIEWED BY ALL...

BUT THTS WHAT ADVANCED NETWORKING IS ALL ABOUT AND YOU HAVE TO BE OUT OF IT IF YOU ARE SO SCARED.....

P.S: REMEMBER MY LAST POST.. LIFE AT A CLICK

Life at a click

Well recently there is a big fuss about the networking sites like orkut and all.People cant accept the fast growth of the new trend to make friendships with unknown strangers which the parents are often heard to warn their wards about ... but orkut had made this look much more atrractive and newcoming..The latest cool fashion is having an acoount and making more and more friends getting cool ratings by them , accepting testimonials and increasing virtual fans......make the new generation look much more popular...

These networking sites are in the news more because of the recent murder that took place. But the point I want to say is that murders used to take place much before the networking sites were in hype and even terrorism took place a lot..The main hype is about accepting a new trend..There is always a controversy in doing that.

I want to give a short example which I heard somewhere.......

Millions of years back in China rule was imposed that they have to keep their hair long like the females..ppl cudn't accept that and there was rebellion and millions died in that..and several years after that again a rule was imposed that the men would have to keep their hair short in order to be distuinguished easily from females..again rebellion took place and millions died in that....

So the point is that nobody can accept sudden changes and new trends...so be cool and easy guys..

End of (hostel) life!!!!!!!!!!!

Life without a hostel is something you cant imagine of..atleast in my case its the scenerio...Still remember those days in childhood when mom used to impose her rules on me saying "if you don't follow them I wud send u to hostel/boarding school". I used to be scared at the very thought of separation from my parents but really a time came when I had to stay in a hostel and complete my graduation in marine engineering. At first I thought that I am goin to face my biggest fear of my life to avoid which I have been stopping myself from doing many naughty things in the past which I could have done...

It was the time I saw my mom crying, leaving me was such a punishment for her...I realized that she had been lying all these years that she would have send me to a hostel..That is something she could have never done , she loves me a lot. But now it was a question of my career so she was made to understand.

A journey to a new life began. Living in a hostel teaches you many things. I feared it the most as I heard that you are made to work there like a slave and you have to do everything on your own..In childhood I was so dependent on my parents I thought it to be the severe most punishment for me. But now I felt that in life you have to be dependent and a day would come when you will have to do things on your own.. You are not going to be a slave in a hostel but yea you need to do things and managing your needs on your own..and thats something you got to learn....

My college gave me the four most fruitful years of my life. Getting friends who became brothers because staying together eating together like a family can never go in vain..Gradually I fell in love..... It was my hostel my friends and my college which gave me a new beginning.. I learnt many things from them shared a lot with happiness and never found myself lonely when I needed a shoulder to share my problems....Next came the biggest fear of my life...the time to get separated as my four year course was on a verge of end. This was the fear of losing my home my family my brothers ............................... my college...

See the irony of my life ......................... feared the two opposite things..one going to the hostel and the other end of hostel life...............Both came and made me fight with my greatest fear....

I will always cherish the sweet memories of my college days..and I am still optimistic as I think it is the end of hostel life but not the end of life...rather I would say its a great beginning to something new.....